Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Baby holder

Today is Day Three of daycare--last day for the week--and it seems to be going okay. I thought I would be tearful, dropping him off that first day, but he didn't really mind so I didn't mind. He's still a little young to be afraid of strangers, and I'm hoping that with daycare (and constantly passing him around amongst friends and family), we can sidestep that phase a little bit.

Speaking of passing the baby around, do you know what is a semi-weird phenomenon I had never thought about, pre-baby? The Holding of the Baby. I am 100% fine with everyone I know holding him for as long as they want; I get plenty of baby-holding time. But I think some people are maybe afraid to ask, in case I do mind, and I kind of feel weird offering. Because if someone happens to be a non-baby-holder (which is a perfectly fine way to be), then that person has to say, "No thank you," and feel all bad, as if they have personally rejected my baby (which maybe they have because he is kind of a drooler, but that's okay too). (Also, when the baby starts to fuss, I usually take him, because who wants to hold a screaming baby?) Anyway.  Is there a graceful solution to this problem?

Long, long ago, some of you asked if Soren has Scandanavian heritage, and the answer is ja. Mr. A.'s mom moved here from Norway when she was a little girl, and we pulled Soren's name off of her family tree. However, that Soren was quite a few "greats" ago, and I think from a Danish branch of the family. So there you have it. Hopefully the original Soren wasn't a total butt, but if we was at least we'll never know it.

In thrilling financial news: We bought the $500 part for our crappy old furnace and are crossing our fingers. It looked for a while there like I might lose my job, or at least get demoted (because of budget cuts; please believe that I am a killer librarian). It seems that won't happen, which is wonderful, but other killer librarians--who are also good friends of mine--are probably going to get the boot. It's kind of a giant suckfest at the library right now.

5 comments:

Linda Johns said...

May I hold your baby? Please?

libraryunderworld said...

How funny. I had that experience last night when there was a cute baby within reach, but I didn't know the mom well and worried...I don't know. What if this pimple on my face makes her not want me to touch him? ;) Love that baby smell...

Jen Robinson said...

I will hold your baby! But don't let Sky hold him because he's a baby stealer.

Lass said...

I will hold your baby even if he is drooling or screaming. Of course, we'd have to actually meet first. Also, glad to know your job is safe.

Librarian Girl said...

I sometimes hesitate to demand baby-holding because I fear of scaring the parents. But really, I always want to hold Soren and am merely holding back my crazy.

I think I am past that stage with you, so excuse the impending grabfest.